Why Should You Listen to Me?
Good Question.
- Grew up obsessed with biology (especially genetics—because what even are humans?)
- Earned a B.S. in Chemistry at UC San Diego (1993)
- Took it up a notch with a Ph.D. in Analytical Chemistry from the University of Georgia (1998)
- Spent 25 years in software as an engineer, architect, and manager (because science alone wasn’t enough chaos for me)
- Lifelong student of psychology, philosophy, and sociology (because understanding people is harder than quantum mechanics)
- Full Member of WPATH (World Professional Association for Transgender Health), the folks who set the global Standard of Care for gender-affirming healthcare
Ways to
Work with Me

Speaking Engagements
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One-on-One Identity Guidance
Ready to explore your own gender or identity? I provide identity guidance to help you define your goals and map out a plan that works for you.

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Podcast Guest & Hostess
Join me as a guest on my podcast, or invite me to join yours! I talk about identity and the human experience that connects us all, regardless of the identities we display.

The Big Idea
Identity isn’t just a Queer thing—it’s a human thing. Every single person, at some point, asks, “Who am I?” and “Why does this all feel like an existential rollercoaster?” My mission is to show that gender and identity exploration aren’t fringe ideas—they’re fundamental human experiences.
So if you’re curious, confused, or just along for the ride—welcome. Let’s figure this out together.
Ready to Begin Your Journey?

Whether you’re seeking personalized identity guidance, educational resources, or organizational consulting, The Purplepaw Clan and Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. provide research-backed, experience-informed support for your gender identity exploration.