Today I Am No Longer Disfigured

No angry pigs were harmed in the writing of this article

Last week, I discussed a sense of disfigurement and its value as a typical human experience in maintaining social expectations within the environment. An episode

Social Expectations Leave Us Disfigured

What Rod Serling teaches about gender dysphoria

Imagine living every day with a disfigurement. Not living with a feature you would like to change - living with a feature so abhorrent, an

Identity in a Grain of Sand

My resolution was broken before I even made it

At the time of writing, it is the second day of 2024. Pessimistic statistics indicate as many as one out of twenty New Year's resolutions

Geena Rocero's TED Talk Reveal

'Our spirits will always expand to fill whatever space we are given,' she says. She found her own face in the mirror, her own presence, emerging from nothingness.

In her memoir Horse Barbie, published earlier this year, model Geena Rocero tells us: “We are all of us works in progress, every draft of

Self-Love Is Easier than I Thought

Sometimes we must battle our own beliefs to accept ourselves

My good friend Morgan Whitten responded to a photograph I posted to social media recently. She called me beautiful, and I had to stifle the

Shaneel Lal's Fight Against Conversion Therapy

In 2022, powered by young activist Shaneel Lal, Aotearoa New Zealand banned conversion therapy. 'Stop congratulating me for being brave,' Lal says. Instead, 'annihilate the systems that force me to be brave.'

Recognizing you've always been 'One of Them'

Shaneel Lal, a 23-year-old activist, founded the Conversion Therapy Action Group which pushed to ban conversion therapy in

I Am the Ride

Inspired by Chris Smither's Song and with appreciation to Jen, a dear friend and guiding light for us all.

In my childhood I was the problem. I believed I was the bully, although I was always responding to the incessant teasing of others which

To Bake the Pie of Identity

And wear it, if possible

I was 13 years old when my father took me to a movie theatre to watch "Risky Business." I was certainly too young to understand

They Are Poking Mama Cat!

Beware! Fools are treading into my territory!

I recently read a fairly old article that struck a nerve, and something clicked. A switch moved and I am suddenly in full berserker protective

Transgender Oasis

A pool of friendly in a desert of suspicion

Hello Catty Kittens*, and of course everyone else!

I find myself lately wanting to share more positive messages since so much around us feels like

Driving Away the Thought of Self-Harm

Caution: dangerous curves ahead

Not long ago, my mental health deteriorated to the point I believed suicide was the only resolution. It was the worst I had felt since

"I Am Not a Fish" and Other Christian Inconsistencies

Transubstantiation is only the beginning

When describing the distinction between sex and gender, I use an example of a species of fish from the Great Barrier Reef. This species of

27 October 2023 - Art as a Method of Identity

Gender Identity Today - now in convenient podcast form!

Today I talk to Tucker Lieberman, an excellent author and philosopher whose transgender journey took place in part through his creativity. Tucker and I discuss

Unbalanced Equation

Projecting our views onto each other

While a common experience for me, and I believe, most transgender people, this particular form of unbalanced relationship is not specific to or exclusive of

Spiritual Energy Shifts from Gender Transition

Those icy fingers up and down my spine

I am a scientist - an Analytical Chemist. As a graduate student, I was taught to consider experimental design, to question data acquisition and processing

13 October 2023 - The Transgender Experience in Türkiye with Döro

Gender Identity Today - now in convenient podcast form!

Today I am honored to share this interview with my inspiring Sister Döro. She speaks under cover of anonymity about being transgender in Türkiye. The

The Neverending Story of Transgender

Life without a ramalamadingdong

I am a very special person. I am transgender. When I was born, a doctor inspected my anatomy and came to a conclusion about identity

06 October 2023 - Observations on Feminism with Kendra Koch

Gender Identity Today - now in convenient podcast form!

Today's episode is about feminism. My friend Kendra and I muse on Western society and feminism's role in it.

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October 2023 Member Participation

What's on your mind that needs answering?

It's October 2023, which means it's time to begin a new tradition. I love it when I get to talk directly to the people I

Secret Agent

I intuitively knew my gender as a child, as early as 2-3 years old. I am certain of this today for many reasons, but what stands out to me most at the moment are the memories of my mother gently correcting any behaviors she thought too effeminate. How she proudly

I intuitively knew my gender as a child, as early as 2-3 years old. I am certain of this today for many reasons, but what