Identity and the Division of Labor
You scratch my parts, I'll scratch yours
In my introduction to Internal Family Systems (IFS), I closed with Richard Schwartz's statement that there are no bad parts. That statement is at the
October 2023 Member Participation
What's on your mind that needs answering?
It's October 2023, which means it's time to begin a new tradition. I love it when I get to talk directly to the people I
Why Are You? - Episode 23 with Morgaine
The video version of the podcast that asks why you are who you are
In this episode, we meet Morgaine (no, a different one!) whose education in Ancient Mediterranean History turns out to be some of the most fascinating
Shaking the Foundation of Identity
When major reconstruction is better than living in ignorance
Previously, I compared the pressure of gender dysphoria to the Yellowstone Caldera. As I navigated the eruption that resulted in me transitioning gender, I expected
The Black Cauldron of Transgender
An unplanned trip to Annwfn to meet my personal Arawn.
A good friend of mine - also a transgender woman, but currently unable to transition - sent me a surprising message. She apologized for not
Why Are You? - Episode 22 with Sabene
The video version of the podcast that asks why you are who you are
In this show, I speak with Sabene - an artist in the true sense whose love for the craft shows in everything she does. Sabene
07 September 2023 - Mental Health and the LGBTQ Community
When you can't get enough Dingbattitude in your life
This episode is the beginning of what is to become Gender Identity Weekly - my existing Dingbat Diaries idea, but engaging other contributors to Gender
Bearing Responsibility for the Transgender Community
Is it enough to care only for ourselves?
I wrote previously about the responsibility transgender people bear for the rest of society. Before we transition gender and make our true selves public, we
31 August 2023 - Being Blonde, Female, and Depressed
When you can't get enough Dingbattitude in your life
On the program today:
- Why I missed the Dingbat Diaries video for last week
- A response to an article that explained my absence last week
Writing My Transgender Life
Forcing my thoughts to change by leaving my comfort zone
The past weeks seem filled with incessant talking. I talked with a new friend, our conversation honest and easy. I talked long into the night
To Bear Responsibility is Transgender
To err is the rest of society
I had a discussion recently about the pain in my life - perhaps even the pain of being transgender. My friend commented I hadn't really
All Except for My Parts
A broken love story
I met a woman. She is a Dark Lady. Her features are not altogether dark, but who she is remains dark to me. She is
New Web Site, Haterade, and D&D: 18 August 2023
When you can't get enough Dingbattitude in your life
On the program today, I talk about these fabulous topics:
- I launched the new web site I've talked about for a month
- I
Why Are You? - Episode 20 with Ari
The video version of the podcast that asks why you are who you are
In this show, we meet Ari - a writer and editor whose healing energy inflames her fiction. Ari and I talk about hate on the
Why Are You? — Episode 19 with Morgan
The video version of the podcast that asks why you are who you are
In this episode, we meet Morgan - a hilarious, irreverent and vibrant woman...whom I ask to picture herself in the pirate's life. Morgan and
Gender and Voice with Kevin Dorman: 10 August 2023
When you can't get enough Dingbattitude in your life
Hi, Kittycats! This is The Dingbat Diaries for the week of August 10th, 2023, which features Kevin Dorman of Prismatic Speech Services:
- What is gender-affirming
Review of Gender Theory and Transgender Traits
Collecting all my thoughts in one convenient place
Over the last ten months, I published more than 70 articles detailing my experience transitioning gender from man to woman, including research on the biology,
Barbie, Music for Minors, and Cisgender Dysphoria: The Dingbat Diaries - 04 Aug 2023
When you can't get enough Dingbattitude in your life
Hi, Kittycats! This is The Dingbat Diaries for the week of August 4th, 2023:
- What in the world makes "Barbie" such a controversial movie?
Why Are You? Episode 18 — Reading "I Cried for 'Barbie'"
The podcast that still dares to ask why you are who you are
Today's episode comes from an article I wrote this week after seeing the movie "Barbie." In short, I loved it, and I cried. My article
I Cried for “Barbie”
There is a theme worth viewing beyond all the pink
NOTE: MINOR SPOILERS AHEAD.
Today I went to see the “Barbie” movie. I watched the glitter and the glamor, the dancing and the singing. I