The Childhood Trauma Test That Redefines "Good Parenting"

ACE is the one test you don't want to ace

Childhood trauma is not a parenting accident. It's a parenting choice. By forcing your values and your religion on your children, you strip them

Gender Dysphoria: YOUR Experience, Not Just Mine

The very human experience of not feeling perfectly yourself

Cisgender people have gender dysphoria - and some even worse than the gender-diverse community. That's because gender dysphoria is about incongruence between how you

Think You Know Human Biology? XX / XY Isn't Even HALF the Story!

Human Development is complicated, but still not identity

What if everything you learned about human biology in high school was incomplete? Not exactly wrong, but breathtakingly oversimplified?

Science has known for decades that

Intersectionality: Why "Live and Let Live" Is a CONTRADICTION

Critical Theory cuts both ways

Of all people, I was attacked by a Christian telling me to "live and let live." Worse, he did it as he attacked me with

How Much Gender Is Enough? A Transgender Christian's Dilemma.

Can you be both Christian AND transgender? A viewer says NO.

Can transgender Christians still follow their faith? Or does the Christian god demand full fealty to the commandments of his followers?

A viewer's question

Who Gets to Decide What Queer History Our Children Learn?

New words do not indicate new experiences

What do religious conservatives fear when they suppress Queer history? If they can predict a person's identity at conception, shouldn't Queer history only

Conversion Therapy Thinks It's a Growth Mindset? That's EXACTLY the Problem.

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A False Growth Mindset prizes effort, not learning, and conversion therapy leans into the fallacy. But knowledge is the basis of action, and changing knowledge

Your Mindset Is Lying to You About Your Gender

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Your Mindset determines whether gender transition is possible...or permanently out of reach. Carol Dweck's research on Growth Mindset vs. Fixed Mindset reveals exactly

Conservative Rhetoric Just Hung Itself - and SCOTUS Helped

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It felt like SCOTUS handed us a defeat in Chiles vs Salazar. But the decision, built upon a First Amendment challenge to conversion therapy bans,

Sex Is a Spectrum: The Conservative Secret Weapon

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Sex is NOT a spectrum, and claiming it is gives conservatives a secret weapon to limit gender-diverse identity.

Despite its popularity and well-meaning

A New Political Playbook for Indiana - with Lilliana Kendra Young

The Purplepaw Clan - now in convenient podcast form!

Today we hear about Lilliana Kendra Young's pursuit of justice for all in Indiana State government. Lilliana is a candidate for District 61 of

Undoing a Lifetime of Programming - with Terraine LeBeau

The Purplepaw Clan - now in convenient podcast form!

In this episode, Terraine LeBeau breaks down how trauma begins, how it manifests, and how it can end.  Terraine is a Certified Relationship Mentor,

Afraid to Transition? Here's a Simple Process to Start Today!

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Afraid to transition because you don't know where to start? You don't need to have it all figured out right now. You just

Gender-Affirming Hormone Cycling: Can You Feel More Like a Woman?

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The gender-critical crowd claims Hormone Replacement Therapy can't make a woman the way natural cycles do. But what if HRT could simulate that

Transgender Women are the New Roman Christians

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Why does leaving male privilege make society so angry? Ancient Rome holds the answer.

In this live stream, we explore a fascinating historical parallel: the

Falling in Love with Life Again - with Serena Saint-Sinclair

The Purplepaw Clan - now in convenient podcast form!

Today's episode features Serena Saint Sinclair's story of deconstructing religion to build a new magical practice. Serena is a Chaos witch, Persephone devotee,

Gender-Affirming Surgery Options: Breast Augmentation & Vaginoplasty

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Navigating gender-affirming surgery can feel overwhelming, and I'm here to break down the choices!

I discuss how to match breast implants to your

What Is Gender? (And Why the Dictionary Definition Fails)

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"Can you define the word 'gender'?"

It sounds like a simple question, but when I received it as a comment on the podcast with DR

Four Tools to Find Yourself When You're Lost in a Hostile World

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Struggling with identity and burnout in a hostile world? Being human today means feeling lost much of the time, but these four grounding tools help

Why I Regret My Transition (Sometimes)

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Gender-affirming care consistently shows lower rates of regret than almost every other medical procedure. Yet, the conservative narrative is often that even one "detransitioner"