Welcome to The Purplepaw Blog, where we unpack the complexities of gender, identity, and what it truly means to be human—without the academic jargon (okay, maybe just a little, but only the fun kind).

Curated by Amethysta Herrick. Ph.D., this space is where science, philosophy, and lived experience collide to challenge assumptions and spark new perspectives. Whether you’re here to explore your own identity, stay informed on the latest research, or just enjoy a deep dive into the human experience, we deliver thoughtful, engaging, and refreshingly honest discussions. No fluff. No gatekeeping. Just real conversations about who we are and how we navigate the world. Dive in, stay curious, and let’s rethink identity together.

Geena Rocero's TED Talk Reveal

'Our spirits will always expand to fill whatever space we are given,' she says. She found her own face in the mirror, her own presence, emerging from nothingness.

In her memoir Horse Barbie, published earlier this year, model Geena Rocero tells us: “We are all of us works in progress, every draft of

30 December 2023 - The Labels We Choose for Ourselves

Gender Identity Today - now in convenient podcast form!

In this episode of the show, I speak with my very good friend Shannara Quissell, an amazing attorney and Executive Director of the Colorado Name

2023: My Year in Mental Health Failures

It was the best of Ami, it was the worst of Ami

As 2022 drew to a close, I looked toward a bright future in 2023. I was a writer. I was seeing myself for the first

22 December 2023 - Perceiving Our True Selves

Gender Identity Today - now in convenient podcast form!

In today's episode, I speak with Lisa Haukom: a dear friend, photographer, and developer of The Self-Portrait Method - a course designed to help us

The Pathologization of Being Human

The doctor's office called - you have a bad case of identity

In a previous article naming gender dysphoria as part of the typical human experience of developing and maintaining gender identity, I received several comments focusing

15 December 2023 - Role-Playing Games as Identity Discovery

Gender Identity Today - now in convenient podcast form!

Today on the show, I discuss role-playing games with Bill Tucker, an experienced improv actor and tabletop role-playing gamer. Bill and I get philosophical about

The Value of Doing Nothing

How much would you pay for absolutely nothing?

I did not enjoy last week. No, that description is simply too bland. Last week was horrid - worse than the little girl in the

Self-Love Is Easier than I Thought

Sometimes we must battle our own beliefs to accept ourselves

My good friend Morgan Whitten responded to a photograph I posted to social media recently. She called me beautiful, and I had to stifle the

01 December 2023 - Sex, Gender, and Sexuality

Gender Identity Today - now in convenient podcast form!

Today I speak with the one and only Ossiana Tepfenhart, who covered the adult film industry as a journalist and has written on topics from

Shaneel Lal's Fight Against Conversion Therapy

In 2022, powered by young activist Shaneel Lal, Aotearoa New Zealand banned conversion therapy. 'Stop congratulating me for being brave,' Lal says. Instead, 'annihilate the systems that force me to be brave.'

Recognizing you've always been 'One of Them'

Shaneel Lal, a 23-year-old activist, founded the Conversion Therapy Action Group which pushed to ban conversion therapy in

I Am the Ride

Inspired by Chris Smither's Song and with appreciation to Jen, a dear friend and guiding light for us all.

In my childhood I was the problem. I believed I was the bully, although I was always responding to the incessant teasing of others which

To Bake the Pie of Identity

And wear it, if possible

I was 13 years old when my father took me to a movie theatre to watch "Risky Business." I was certainly too young to understand

17 November 2023 - Divination as a Path to Introspection

Gender Identity Today - now in convenient podcast form!

In this slightly different show, I engage my witchy side with Miriam Rachel, a medium and tarot reader who writes and teaches how to improve

They Are Poking Mama Cat!

Beware! Fools are treading into my territory!

I recently read a fairly old article that struck a nerve, and something clicked. A switch moved and I am suddenly in full berserker protective

The Many Faces of Gender Dysphoria

Too bad your mama couldn't give you a good face!

A common assertion among many transgender people is the abject futility of explaining gender dysphoria to cisgender people. In answer, many cisgender people throw up

Transgender Oasis

A pool of friendly in a desert of suspicion

Hello Catty Kittens*, and of course everyone else!

I find myself lately wanting to share more positive messages since so much around us feels like

10 November 2024 - Body, Embodiment, and Identity

Gender Identity Today - now in convenient podcast form!

In this episode, I talk to Caitie Corradino, a Registered Dietician and body worker who explains the connections among body, mind, and spirit. Caitie and

Driving Away the Thought of Self-Harm

Caution: dangerous curves ahead

Not long ago, my mental health deteriorated to the point I believed suicide was the only resolution. It was the worst I had felt since

"I Am Not a Fish" and Other Christian Inconsistencies

Transubstantiation is only the beginning

When describing the distinction between sex and gender, I use an example of a species of fish from the Great Barrier Reef. This species of

27 October 2023 - Art as a Method of Identity

Gender Identity Today - now in convenient podcast form!

Today I talk to Tucker Lieberman, an excellent author and philosopher whose transgender journey took place in part through his creativity. Tucker and I discuss