Welcome to The Purplepaw Blog, where we unpack the complexities of gender, identity, and what it truly means to be human—without the academic jargon (okay, maybe just a little, but only the fun kind).

Curated by Amethysta Herrick. Ph.D., this space is where science, philosophy, and lived experience collide to challenge assumptions and spark new perspectives. Whether you’re here to explore your own identity, stay informed on the latest research, or just enjoy a deep dive into the human experience, we deliver thoughtful, engaging, and refreshingly honest discussions. No fluff. No gatekeeping. Just real conversations about who we are and how we navigate the world. Dive in, stay curious, and let’s rethink identity together.

Transgender and Not in Touch with My Feelings

I Still Belong to the Episcopal “No Touch” Massage Club

I am a transgender woman. I have no doubts, but sometimes I wonder if I will ever fit in? So many of my sisters are

Society Must Operate as an Immune System

I hope my community grows exponentially - like a virus

My son fell sick last December. I tried my best not to succumb, and although I felt I put up the good fight, I also

09 February 2024 - The First Step Is to Believe

When you know who you are, you can be who you are.

In this episode, I speak with John C. Morley.  John is a prolific podcaster and writer, a great storyteller, and a serial entrepreneur. 

I Am Not Anti-Science

How science is used against the LGBTQ community

I am a scientist. I began my undergraduate education with the intent of becoming a geneticist. My interests changed, and I switched from biology to

I'm a Gender Autonomist

The term 'gender activist' is used to point at trans people living with dignity and solidarity, capable of saying 'no thank you' and daring to shrug at and disagree with someone who doesn't like them just because they're trans. 'Activist' is used as an insult for someone who believes in autonomy.

Bodily autonomy is important to everyone, though some don't feel its importance or can't explain why it's important until it's taken away or they realize

02 February 2024 - Building a Community Identity

Gender Identity Today - now in convenient podcast form!

Today I have the distinct honor of interviewing Emily Kailyn. Emily began a community called The Transverse and continues her great work for the transgender,

The Sting of Being Clocked

or, Being late to the gender dysphoria party

I ate dinner recently with a psychologist friend of mine - whom I will call Fred. Although Fred was my therapist until he retired in

Today I Am No Longer Disfigured

No angry pigs were harmed in the writing of this article

Last week, I discussed a sense of disfigurement and its value as a typical human experience in maintaining social expectations within the environment. An episode

Musings - Post GCS

New Member of the Sisterhood of Traveling, Broken-In, Slightly-Stained Jeans

I have struggled with what to say, what to write about that could possibly be of interest to those that have read my previous writing.

19 January 2024 - Adequate Representation in Fiction

Gender Identity Today - now in convenient podcast form!

Today on the program, I speak with Amanda Lien, a technical copywriter and published science fiction author. Amanda gives us the lowdown on why technology

Social Expectations Leave Us Disfigured

What Rod Serling teaches about gender dysphoria

Imagine living every day with a disfigurement. Not living with a feature you would like to change - living with a feature so abhorrent, an

12 December 2024 - Building Technology That Supports Humanity

Gender Identity Today - now in convenient podcast form!

In this fascinating episode, get ready to geek out with Lindsay Tabas, a technologist also known as The Lady Engineer®. Lindsay and I have some

Dinging in the New Year

Using divination to seek inspiration in 2024

Last month, I published an article detailing my plan to change how I worked throughout 2023. I have grand plans in the works for 2024,

05 December 2023 - Relationships as a Study of Self

Gender Identity Today - now in convenient podcast form!

In this episode, I have a great conversation with Mona Lazar, an artist, writer, and relationship coach. Mona and I contemplate finding reflection in a

Identity in a Grain of Sand

My resolution was broken before I even made it

At the time of writing, it is the second day of 2024. Pessimistic statistics indicate as many as one out of twenty New Year's resolutions

Geena Rocero's TED Talk Reveal

'Our spirits will always expand to fill whatever space we are given,' she says. She found her own face in the mirror, her own presence, emerging from nothingness.

In her memoir Horse Barbie, published earlier this year, model Geena Rocero tells us: “We are all of us works in progress, every draft of

30 December 2023 - The Labels We Choose for Ourselves

Gender Identity Today - now in convenient podcast form!

In this episode of the show, I speak with my very good friend Shannara Quissell, an amazing attorney and Executive Director of the Colorado Name

2023: My Year in Mental Health Failures

It was the best of Ami, it was the worst of Ami

As 2022 drew to a close, I looked toward a bright future in 2023. I was a writer. I was seeing myself for the first

22 December 2023 - Perceiving Our True Selves

Gender Identity Today - now in convenient podcast form!

In today's episode, I speak with Lisa Haukom: a dear friend, photographer, and developer of The Self-Portrait Method - a course designed to help us

The Pathologization of Being Human

The doctor's office called - you have a bad case of identity

In a previous article naming gender dysphoria as part of the typical human experience of developing and maintaining gender identity, I received several comments focusing