Welcome to The Purplepaw Blog, where we unpack the complexities of gender, identity, and what it truly means to be human—without the academic jargon (okay, maybe just a little, but only the fun kind).

Curated by Amethysta Herrick. Ph.D., this space is where science, philosophy, and lived experience collide to challenge assumptions and spark new perspectives. Whether you’re here to explore your own identity, stay informed on the latest research, or just enjoy a deep dive into the human experience, we deliver thoughtful, engaging, and refreshingly honest discussions. No fluff. No gatekeeping. Just real conversations about who we are and how we navigate the world. Dive in, stay curious, and let’s rethink identity together.

Why Trans Men Can't Grow Up

We are not victims, infants, or in danger

Have you ever noticed that the media and the public conversation around trans rights rarely focuses on or even mentions older trans men? And no,

22 March 2024 - The Stories That Live between the Lines

Gender Identity Today - now in convenient podcast form!

Today's episode features an amazing artist and friend, Cendrine Marrouat. Cendrine really has done it all: poet, photographer, painter, podcaster, and author. We discuss topics

The Cheap Distraction of "Gender Ideology"

Public Service Announcement: your government isn't interested in helping you

I am very angry.

Last week, I discovered the gender-affirming surgery I scheduled for 01 May 2024 is not likely to occur. In short, I

A little autonomy diagram: Repro rights and gender

Bans on abortion and gender transition seem to me like arrows pointing in opposite directions: earlier and later. A ban on birth control, meanwhile, seems like an arrow that loops around from the middle of one human life to the beginning of a new one.

Reproductive rights, including birth control and abortion, are heavily grounded in the principle of autonomy over one's own body.

So is gender transition. That's a

15 March 2024 - The Effect of Childhood on Who We Are

Gender Identity Today - now in convenient podcast form!

In today's episode, I have a fun discussion about a serious topic with Brittany Sandoval. As a registered nurse and foster parent, Brittany had to

The Inalienable Right Our Governments Fear

Humans require identity, not empty promises

In a recent address, Pope Francis called "gender ideology" "the ugliest danger” of our time. The Pope did not define "gender ideology," nor did he

Creative Lies We Tell Ourselves

There's a reason "analytical" begins with the four letters it does

I received my first electric guitar as a gift for my 17th birthday. That's more years than I care to consider before my birthday this

01 March 2024 - Becoming Unstoppable

Gender Identity Today - now in convenient podcast form!

In today's episode, I have an honest conversation with Victoria Pelletier, an executive leader, best-selling author, and motivational speaker. Victoria talks me through what it

The Process of Gender vs. the Result of Gender Identity

Pain can help you grow - and at times, more than just growing angry

A friend of mine mentioned his struggle to understand the distinction among sex, gender, gender identity, and sexuality. My friend isn't a fool - he

23 February 2024 - Representing Humans in Marketing

Gender Identity Today - now in convenient podcast form!

In this episode, I talk with Danni Velasquez-Mora, an absolutely amazing woman who ups the game in marketing as Founder and Creative Director at Womankind

Scientific Facts as Social Constructs

What we believe is real depends in part upon our sense of safety in society

When discussing sex or gender in modern discourse - particularly in internet forums in which anonymity is guaranteed - the phrase "social construct" makes frequent

16 February 2024 - Finding Our Soul in Dance

Gender Identity Today - now in convenient podcast form!

In this on-location podcast shoot, I have a grand time with Julia DiVerdi. Julia is a stunning burlesque and belly dancer who shifted her focus

Transgender and Not in Touch with My Feelings

I Still Belong to the Episcopal “No Touch” Massage Club

I am a transgender woman. I have no doubts, but sometimes I wonder if I will ever fit in? So many of my sisters are

Society Must Operate as an Immune System

I hope my community grows exponentially - like a virus

My son fell sick last December. I tried my best not to succumb, and although I felt I put up the good fight, I also

09 February 2024 - The First Step Is to Believe

When you know who you are, you can be who you are.

In this episode, I speak with John C. Morley.  John is a prolific podcaster and writer, a great storyteller, and a serial entrepreneur. 

I Am Not Anti-Science

How science is used against the LGBTQ community

I am a scientist. I began my undergraduate education with the intent of becoming a geneticist. My interests changed, and I switched from biology to

I'm a Gender Autonomist

The term 'gender activist' is used to point at trans people living with dignity and solidarity, capable of saying 'no thank you' and daring to shrug at and disagree with someone who doesn't like them just because they're trans. 'Activist' is used as an insult for someone who believes in autonomy.

Bodily autonomy is important to everyone, though some don't feel its importance or can't explain why it's important until it's taken away or they realize

02 February 2024 - Building a Community Identity

Gender Identity Today - now in convenient podcast form!

Today I have the distinct honor of interviewing Emily Kailyn. Emily began a community called The Transverse and continues her great work for the transgender,

The Sting of Being Clocked

or, Being late to the gender dysphoria party

I ate dinner recently with a psychologist friend of mine - whom I will call Fred. Although Fred was my therapist until he retired in

Today I Am No Longer Disfigured

No angry pigs were harmed in the writing of this article

Last week, I discussed a sense of disfigurement and its value as a typical human experience in maintaining social expectations within the environment. An episode