Welcome to The Purplepaw Blog, where we unpack the complexities of gender, identity, and what it truly means to be human—without the academic jargon (okay, maybe just a little, but only the fun kind).

Curated by Amethysta Herrick. Ph.D., this space is where science, philosophy, and lived experience collide to challenge assumptions and spark new perspectives. Whether you’re here to explore your own identity, stay informed on the latest research, or just enjoy a deep dive into the human experience, we deliver thoughtful, engaging, and refreshingly honest discussions. No fluff. No gatekeeping. Just real conversations about who we are and how we navigate the world. Dive in, stay curious, and let’s rethink identity together.

Musings - Post GCS

New Member of the Sisterhood of Traveling, Broken-In, Slightly-Stained Jeans

I have struggled with what to say, what to write about that could possibly be of interest to those that have read my previous writing.

19 January 2024 - Adequate Representation in Fiction

Gender Identity Today - now in convenient podcast form!

Today on the program, I speak with Amanda Lien, a technical copywriter and published science fiction author. Amanda gives us the lowdown on why technology

Social Expectations Leave Us Disfigured

What Rod Serling teaches about gender dysphoria

Imagine living every day with a disfigurement. Not living with a feature you would like to change - living with a feature so abhorrent, an

12 December 2024 - Building Technology That Supports Humanity

Gender Identity Today - now in convenient podcast form!

In this fascinating episode, get ready to geek out with Lindsay Tabas, a technologist also known as The Lady Engineer®. Lindsay and I have some

Dinging in the New Year

Using divination to seek inspiration in 2024

Last month, I published an article detailing my plan to change how I worked throughout 2023. I have grand plans in the works for 2024,

05 December 2023 - Relationships as a Study of Self

Gender Identity Today - now in convenient podcast form!

In this episode, I have a great conversation with Mona Lazar, an artist, writer, and relationship coach. Mona and I contemplate finding reflection in a

Identity in a Grain of Sand

My resolution was broken before I even made it

At the time of writing, it is the second day of 2024. Pessimistic statistics indicate as many as one out of twenty New Year's resolutions

Geena Rocero's TED Talk Reveal

'Our spirits will always expand to fill whatever space we are given,' she says. She found her own face in the mirror, her own presence, emerging from nothingness.

In her memoir Horse Barbie, published earlier this year, model Geena Rocero tells us: “We are all of us works in progress, every draft of

30 December 2023 - The Labels We Choose for Ourselves

Gender Identity Today - now in convenient podcast form!

In this episode of the show, I speak with my very good friend Shannara Quissell, an amazing attorney and Executive Director of the Colorado Name

2023: My Year in Mental Health Failures

It was the best of Ami, it was the worst of Ami

As 2022 drew to a close, I looked toward a bright future in 2023. I was a writer. I was seeing myself for the first

22 December 2023 - Perceiving Our True Selves

Gender Identity Today - now in convenient podcast form!

In today's episode, I speak with Lisa Haukom: a dear friend, photographer, and developer of The Self-Portrait Method - a course designed to help us

The Pathologization of Being Human

The doctor's office called - you have a bad case of identity

In a previous article naming gender dysphoria as part of the typical human experience of developing and maintaining gender identity, I received several comments focusing

15 December 2023 - Role-Playing Games as Identity Discovery

Gender Identity Today - now in convenient podcast form!

Today on the show, I discuss role-playing games with Bill Tucker, an experienced improv actor and tabletop role-playing gamer. Bill and I get philosophical about

The Value of Doing Nothing

How much would you pay for absolutely nothing?

I did not enjoy last week. No, that description is simply too bland. Last week was horrid - worse than the little girl in the

Self-Love Is Easier than I Thought

Sometimes we must battle our own beliefs to accept ourselves

My good friend Morgan Whitten responded to a photograph I posted to social media recently. She called me beautiful, and I had to stifle the

01 December 2023 - Sex, Gender, and Sexuality

Gender Identity Today - now in convenient podcast form!

Today I speak with the one and only Ossiana Tepfenhart, who covered the adult film industry as a journalist and has written on topics from

Shaneel Lal's Fight Against Conversion Therapy

In 2022, powered by young activist Shaneel Lal, Aotearoa New Zealand banned conversion therapy. 'Stop congratulating me for being brave,' Lal says. Instead, 'annihilate the systems that force me to be brave.'

Recognizing you've always been 'One of Them'

Shaneel Lal, a 23-year-old activist, founded the Conversion Therapy Action Group which pushed to ban conversion therapy in

I Am the Ride

Inspired by Chris Smither's Song and with appreciation to Jen, a dear friend and guiding light for us all.

In my childhood I was the problem. I believed I was the bully, although I was always responding to the incessant teasing of others which

To Bake the Pie of Identity

And wear it, if possible

I was 13 years old when my father took me to a movie theatre to watch "Risky Business." I was certainly too young to understand

17 November 2023 - Divination as a Path to Introspection

Gender Identity Today - now in convenient podcast form!

In this slightly different show, I engage my witchy side with Miriam Rachel, a medium and tarot reader who writes and teaches how to improve