From Innocence to Desire: The Process of Isolation

The journey from knowing we are pure to accepting we are guilty

In the last article introducing the Amethyst Pentacle, we found a model composed of five states of human experience connected by five processes to evolve

Introducing the Amethyst Pentacle

A practical tool for developing and manifesting personal identity

Human identity comprises far more than genetics, as conservative rhetoric would have us believe. Instead, identity is a complex of the physical, cognitive, and behavioral,

Tuesday Tidbits: Why Community is ESSENTIAL

Identify Yourself - a live stream you can live with

A panel to which I contributed last week left me with a few questions about my work. I'm formally planning a Purplepaw Discord server, and

Is Being Transgender "Unnatural?"

Identify Yourself - a live stream you can live with

Guillermo del Toro's "Frankenstein" and a social media post reminded me of science's tendency to bend the natural toward the unnatural. And yet, evolution indicates

How the Atlanta Pride Festival Taught Me Strength

Identify Yourself - a live stream you can live with

I spent the weekend at the Atlanta Pride Festival and learned some really important lessons about what's happening in the world. Let's talk about them

Trump: The Ultimate Threat To Democracy

Identify Yourself - a live stream you can live with

The past two weeks boiled with hate and discrimination at a level I've never seen in my life. People called out Trump's government for violating

The Unlikely Intersection of Trans Rights and Gun Ownership

Identify Yourself - a live stream you can live with

The Annunciation Church shooting in August 2025 is yet another example of why firearms should be regulated more closely in the United States. But conservative

US v. Skrmetti: The Beginning of the End for Conservative Rhetoric

How to defeat your own rhetoric with a law that upholds it completely

When I last mentioned United States v. Skrmetti - the challenge to Tennessee Bill SB1 of 2023 prohibiting gender-affirming care to transgender minors - I

Growing Up Transgender in a Hostile World

Affirmation is not abuse.

There is so much fear in the world that the TV and Movie Industries capitalize on when creating comedy, and horror films. We suspend our

Dreaming Together, Waking Into a New World

Living real life with other beautiful and functional dreamers

You've likely heard the phrase "I think, therefore I am." It comes from the philosopher René Descartes who began using it in 1637. People tracing

Sex, Gender, and Magic

Our greatest change is born from the spaces between

Last week, I attended Paganicon 2025. As a gathering for Pagan practitioners and those seeking to explore their spiritual practice, Paganicon drew magical practitioners from

Distinguishing Gender by Utility to Humans

Moments to allow "cis" and "trans" into my vocabulary

Long before I posted video content on YouTube or TikTok, I wrote an article explaining my distaste for the words "trans" and "transgender." The former

When someone’s feminism doesn’t speak for you

A new book about anti-trans feminism

After reading (and writing about) Sophie Lewis’s article in the Fall 2024 issue of Lux Magazine, I got a hold, via NetGalley, of an

Damming the River of Wisdom

The current of the Universe: swim or go extinct

Survival.

Since the first spark of life flickered tentatively on planet Earth, its history has been utterly of survival.

Some species adapted to changing conditions,

Morons Playing at Monarchy

Donald Trump's lasting legacy of hate

This week, the United States watched the first convicted felon inaugurated as President of the United States. Every American should be in a fit of

Language, Our Story, and Identity

How the words we use change our lives

I love language, the way it evolves, the way it changes. I used to, and still do occasionally, peruse the dictionary, looking up the roots

Transgender Ambivalence

Acceptance, be it internal or external is something we all struggle with in the trans community.

Many decades ago, I devoured every small fragment of information I could about my 'condition.' I was a crossdresser in isolation, without any connection.

10 Points of Anti-Trans Bias You Can Call Out (More or Less Gently)

Philip N. Cohen calls out anti-trans bias in 10 different ways in his recent essay discussing public reaction to gender-affirming care for youth.

Philip N. Cohen, a sociologist at the University of Maryland, wrote a great essay several days ago. It's called "Are too many children transitioning? That’

And I am telling you: LGBTQ+ people are not going back

How's this for clear, brave, balanced authenticity: We won't support politicians who don't represent us.

When people praise us for being trans, they praise us for our authenticity: Our vision of who we truly are, our courage to live it

Pushing Through a Hard Time

When I think of my gender identity, I think of a Jell-O blob. It's a mass, so it exists, but it's not exactly a 'thing.'

We're pushing through some heavy space-time right now.

I take that metaphor from a new book by Kyla Wazana Tompkins called Deviant Matter: Ferment, Intoxicants,