From Wrecked-Up Friend to Transgender Gem

Something about slicing blocks with a pink lightsaber makes me feel like a true transgender woman.

When the Meta Quest 2 virtual reality headset was released to market in 2020, I was sorely tempted to buy one. Recently, two very good

Finding My Name: From Childhood Pain to Transgender Pride

“May I have your name?” asked the Fey Prince. “Yeah, sure — I’m not using it,” answered Amethysta v1.0.

In myths of the Fae — also known as Sidhe, Tylwyth Teg, or Ælfe — faeries commonly take advantage of humans by twisting a turn of phrase

Your Identity Is Non-negotiable

Purge your life of people who choose not to support you in being who you are.

I came out as a transgender woman in August, 2022 — six weeks after I had begun gender-affirming hormone therapy. It took several days to complete

Pain as Self-Care: Why Transgender is Not a Fetish

“I thought I’d gone to the limits. I hadn’t. The Cenobites gave me an experience beyond limits. Pain and pleasure, indivisible.” — Frank the Monster, “Hellraiser”

A recent conversation spurred me to consider my childhood and how it informed my current transgender experience. Like many transgender women, I was diagnosed with

Transgender? Get Ready to Blow Up Your Life!

When I was a child, my friend Jason and I dreamed up a simple method to accomplish the impossible.

Being children, Jason and I expected the laws of physics to be defined by scientists, not revealed by observing Nature. This convenient loophole made ignorance

Overcoming my Hidden Transphobia

I admit, as a transgender woman, I still struggle with transphobia.

This statement may sound ridiculous — how could I be afraid of myself, especially when so much of my writing has been a celebration of the

Ayurveda and the Transgender Soul

Being true to your deepest identity is good for your health.

As members of the LGBTQ community, we understand this tenet to the core, especially when we face discrimination. A friend of mine once commented that

Coming Out for the Holidays: A Transgender Winter Solstice

My mind thrives on making connections.

My mind thrives on making connections.

Finding symbolism in everyday life is a sure-fire way to turn life not-so-everyday. I am Pagan for precisely this

Things That Actually Matter

Today I received a letter from a friend of mine named Charly.

I have known Charly seven years at the time of writing; his wisdom helped me through a very difficult situation with work years ago and

Baby’s First Transgender Black Friday

Since I love to come out swinging, let me state for the record that I hate the term “trans baby.”

The implication that I did not know my inner feminine until my “egg cracked” is ludicrous. Most of us knew since we were children that

The Perfect Gender Transition

So far, this isn’t it

I woke up this morning needing a good cry. I let it happen, because I’m glad of being able to feel emotions after a

Operation Name Change: Mission Accomplished

“You are being served with documents…”

In a previous article (published six days ago at the time of writing), I discussed the process and ramifications of changing my name to one

Death of a Name: On Trans People, Transition, and Integration

I had to go to the courthouse today.

No, not for that — I filed my petition for a legal name change. I mentioned previously that choosing a fancy name is one of the

Earning my Warrior Name

In the article “Feral Cats Make Me a Better Woman,” I discussed the Warriors series of books as an allegory for human life in general, and the transgender experience in particular. I will be using terminology introduced in that article here, and if you find yourself immediately confused, it might

In the article “Feral Cats Make Me a Better Woman,” I discussed the Warriors series of books as an allegory for human life in general,

Feral Cats Make Me a Better Woman

My son discovered a series of books in the past year. In the United States, the series is called Warriors; it originated in the UK from several authors publishing under the pseudonym Erin Hunter. The official web site is here; you can read more about the series here. My son

My son discovered a series of books in the past year. In the United States, the series is called Warriors; it originated in the UK

Changes to Cognition Due to Hormone Therapy

In the last article, I promised to discuss how my cognition — my thoughts, emotions, and methodology of observing the world around me — have changed since I began Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT) in July, 2022. I was surprised by how rapidly inner changes occurred. I still experience revelations regularly, which has

In the last article, I promised to discuss how my cognition — my thoughts, emotions, and methodology of observing the world around me — have changed since

The Horrors of Coming Out

Dear Reader, I would like to come out to you. I voted for Ross Perot in 1992. Yeah…it’s true. In fact, I voted for him again in 1996. My father told me that I was responsible for electing Bill Clinton, whom he despised. My opinion was that Perot

Dear Reader, I would like to come out to you. I voted for Ross Perot in 1992. Yeah…it’s true. In fact, I voted

Why Are There So Many Transgender People in Technology?

I have a quickie thought that I wanted to get out of my head since three completely unrelated conversations recently led me to reconsider something that I had assumed to be a foregone conclusion. I promise there will be no science, no footnotes, and little actual content. That can come

I have a quickie thought that I wanted to get out of my head since three completely unrelated conversations recently led me to reconsider something

The Journey Begins…

Three months ago today — 07 July, 2022 — I applied my first estradiol patch and began my gender transition from presenting as a man to presenting as a woman. Three months ago, I would never have believed that the changes that I experienced could be possible in my life. When I

Three months ago today — 07 July, 2022 — I applied my first estradiol patch and began my gender transition from presenting as a man to presenting